{"id":14394,"date":"2011-02-28T11:52:25","date_gmt":"2011-02-28T16:52:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394"},"modified":"2015-12-27T15:41:55","modified_gmt":"2015-12-27T20:41:55","slug":"notes-to-my-sister","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394","title":{"rendered":"Notes to My Sister"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Type 2 diabetes is the original DIY disease.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">No matter how much coaching or support you receive, whether you  balance carbs and\/or calories, eat locally or at your local McDonald&#8217;s,  it&#8217;s really up to each individual to balance or not balance every day in  favor of the scale and the glucometer.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">I was thinking about this because my sister, who just turned fifty,  has recently been diagnosed with type 2, and she&#8217;s at the start of  everything, struggling with diet, weight and sugar issues. When I listen  to her talk about how hard everything is,\u00a0 I&#8217;m swept back to when I was  first diagnosed with gestational diabetes 26 years ago, and I remember  the frightening and overwhelming enormity of diabetes.\u00a0 Strips and  glucose monitors, blood sugar logs,\u00a0 the fear of pricking my finger, and  most of all, the stunning anxiety of thinking that your bad habits  might hurt your unborn child. The terror of those days, along with the  need to keep the information that I had gestational diabetes away from  my own parents and in-laws (I was worried that they might worry), had me  crouching in restrooms taking secret sugar readings, heading to the  swimming pool for grueling two hour sessions, and in general, quietly  losing my mind until the new baby &#8212; healthy and normal weight, thank  God\u00a0 &#8212; was born.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">When my sister tells me about her diabetes, I want to offer advice,  to help her without appearing to be a know it all. I take a deep breath  and remember that it is a DIY project, that everyone&#8217;s body is slightly  different, and that she&#8217;s going to have to discover, slowly, how her  body reacts to carbs, how much testing she can stand, and how she plans  to take off a few pounds. But after my own experiences, I don&#8217;t want to  say nothing. So what is it that I want to tell her?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">I want to tell her to take it slow, to not cut everything out of her  diet all at once lest she bitterly throw in the towel. I want to tell  her that despite the recommendations of my many nutritionists, I&#8217;ve  found that eating far fewer carbs than the experts have suggested keeps  my sugars on track. I&#8217;d tell her an hour of exercise a day seems to keep  the endocronologist away. And that stress is her worst enemy. I&#8217;d tell  her to carry lifesavers or glucose tabs everywhere she goes, and that  much of diabetes care is trial and error &#8212; you see what works and then  you go from there. That it gets easier, but never easy.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">And that while it is a DIY project, she always has me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":53098,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1501],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v22.9 (Yoast SEO v22.9) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Notes to My Sister | ASweetLife<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Robert Scheinman\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394\",\"name\":\"Notes to My Sister | ASweetLife\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2011-02-28T16:52:25+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-12-27T20:41:55+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/1857a46a471611e37da149a9f5904e39\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg\",\"width\":1280,\"height\":1280},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Notes to My Sister\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/\",\"name\":\"ASweetLife\",\"description\":\"The Diabetes Magazine\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/1857a46a471611e37da149a9f5904e39\",\"name\":\"Robert Scheinman\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b79d3258e275356dc9bd3937dc6b6920?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b79d3258e275356dc9bd3937dc6b6920?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Robert Scheinman\"},\"description\":\"Robert Scheinman received a PhD in Pharmacology in 1990 and joined the faculty of the University of Colorado Denver School of Pharmacy in 1995. Robert runs a medical research laboratory focused on the role of inflammation in various disease states including diabetes, arthritis, and cancer.\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?author=26\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO Premium plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Notes to My Sister | ASweetLife","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Robert Scheinman","Est. reading time":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394","url":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394","name":"Notes to My Sister | ASweetLife","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg","datePublished":"2011-02-28T16:52:25+00:00","dateModified":"2015-12-27T20:41:55+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/1857a46a471611e37da149a9f5904e39"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ASL-Social-Big-Square-3.jpg","width":1280,"height":1280},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=14394#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Notes to My Sister"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/","name":"ASweetLife","description":"The Diabetes Magazine","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/1857a46a471611e37da149a9f5904e39","name":"Robert Scheinman","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b79d3258e275356dc9bd3937dc6b6920?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b79d3258e275356dc9bd3937dc6b6920?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Robert Scheinman"},"description":"Robert Scheinman received a PhD in Pharmacology in 1990 and joined the faculty of the University of Colorado Denver School of Pharmacy in 1995. Robert runs a medical research laboratory focused on the role of inflammation in various disease states including diabetes, arthritis, and cancer.","url":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?author=26"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14394"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14394"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14394\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/53098"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14394"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14394"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14394"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}