{"id":33000,"date":"2013-06-02T09:40:15","date_gmt":"2013-06-02T13:40:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=33000"},"modified":"2015-12-27T15:47:21","modified_gmt":"2015-12-27T20:47:21","slug":"how-a-mother-with-type-1-diabetes-feels-about-her-daughters-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asweetlife.org\/?p=33000","title":{"rendered":"How a Mother with Type 1 Diabetes Feels About her Daughter’s Diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"

Guest post by Jackie Johannes, mother of Molly Johannes.<\/em><\/p>\n

Living with type 1 diabetes is challenging, but even after years of living with it, I was not prepared to deal with a having a diabetic child. That has been almost completely overwhelming at times. I\u2019m a worrier by nature and I am equally concerned about all aspects of both of my children\u2019s lives. However, I must admit that my worry is doubled for my daughter Molly due to her diabetes. Over the years, my husband and I have tried to balance this worry with letting her have as normal a childhood as possible.<\/p>\n

The day I learned that my four year old daughter Molly was diabetic was one of the worst of my life. It was right before Christmas and I went to my sister Joanne\u2019s house after work to pick up the kids. My sister, Paula, (a type 1 diabetic since the age of 10) was also there and we were going to make final plans for Christmas dinner. Molly approached me saying she was thirsty and my sister Joanne said \u201cboy, she\u2019s been thirsty a lot today\u201d. Call it mother\u2019s intuition if you will, but the hair on the back of my head stood up and I looked at my sister Paula. She immediately knew what was going through my mind, and said \u201cjust take her home and test her blood sugar. I\u2019m sure it\u2019s nothing\u201d. So I did just that.\u00a0 I don\u2019t remember the exact reading, but it was somewhere between 300 and 400. I was devastated.<\/p>\n

\"Jackie<\/a>
Jackie and Molly<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Being a diabetic myself, I am well aware of the complications and risks associated with this disease.\u00a0 Many terrible scenarios filled my mind and I was overcome with fear for my child. It\u2019s one thing to have to manage the challenges of diabetes for yourself, but it\u2019s a whole new ballgame when your child is diabetic. With the help from loved ones, especially my husband, I realized that this was not the worst thing in the world that could happen to her or us. We had many things working in our favor among them:\u00a0 She had two type 1 diabetics right in her immediate family for support in her mother and her aunt (who conveniently happens to be a pharmacist, too) and also, because she was so young, she hadn\u2019t yet developed bad nutritional habits.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve been through many phases in the 15+ years since Molly was first diagnosed. When she was very young, she didn\u2019t like to talk about diabetes with people outside of our family, including her closest friends. Looking back, I\u2019m sure the reason for this was twofold: she probably thought they would not understand her condition and I\u2019m sure she didn\u2019t want to be \u201cdifferent\u201d from the rest of the kids. As she got a little older and realized some kids had other issues, (for instance, severe allergies) she opened up more. While in junior high, the school nurse asked her to do a lesson in gym class explaining diabetes to her classmates.\u00a0 In high school, she and a friend went back to the junior high school and did a more elaborate demonstration for the student body. Molly also put on a \u201cMovie night for Diabetes\u201d in high school with all proceeds benefitting the American Diabetes Association as part of her community service project.\u00a0 In college, she joined the College Diabetes Network. She enthusiastically dove into the position as president of the UMass Amherst chapter. Currently, she\u2019s blending her talent for writing and diabetes knowledge together by blogging for A Sweet Life.<\/p>\n

In all those years, there have been trials and tribulations. As she\u2019s grown, we\u2019ve had to make many insulin adjustments. We\u2019ve been very fortunate that she has not yet had a blood sugar so low or so high that it required medical assistance, but that\u2019s not to say that we haven\u2019t experienced severe highs and lows. We have gone through a rebellious period when she didn\u2019t test as often as she should or ate whatever she wanted without taking an injection of insulin.\u00a0 Recently, we\u2019ve experience insulin resistance to the point of taking several extra units of insulin without any effect on her blood sugar. As anyone who is either diabetic or helps care for someone with diabetes knows, this is a condition which is ever-changing.<\/p>\n

Probably the most frightening adjustment we\u2019ve had to make was when she went off to college. Would she test regularly? Would she eat right? What if she experiences a severe low in the middle of the night and can\u2019t help herself? What about alcohol? It wasn\u2019t an issue in high school but we weren\u2019t so na\u00efve as to think it wouldn\u2019t be an issue in college.\u00a0 Will she know how to deal with that challenge? So many things could go wrong. I\u2019m happy to report that she will soon be going into her third year at college, and we\u2019ve had no serious issues. We are proud of how she\u2019s handled independence, and for the most part, taken care of her health.<\/p>\n

There are always going to be worries, but at least we know she\u2019s mature and responsible enough to care for herself. Although it could be considered a curse, we\u2019ve decided to consider the fact that we are both diabetic a blessing. We know that we can always use each other as a resource regarding diabetes questions. And we both understand how the other feels when one of us has a high or a low blood sugar. We are also blessed with a husband\/father who is as involved as possible in our care.<\/p>\n

Life is going to hand all of us lemons from time to time. The key to survival is turning those lemons into \u2013 sugar free \u2013 lemonade.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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