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\"That<\/a>At the end of this past summer, the four of us went to an alumni weekend at the sleepaway camp in the Adirondacks where I spent 8 wonderfully fun and formative summers, first as a camper and then as a counselor. It\u2019s hard to convey how much I loved this camp\u2014the horses we\u2019d ride and take care of, the huge organic garden we\u2019d tend and harvest, the freedom to choose whatever great activity we wanted to try, from hiking to swimming, pottery, weaving, going on \u201cmud runs\u201d on rainy days, to just hanging out by the beautiful lake at sunset looking up at the clouds. The food was great too. Wholesome, though in retrospect, carb-filled. At every breakfast, homemade rolls that we\u2019d cover with honey; at every lunch, homemade bread that we\u2019d slather with butter; on special occasions, strawberry shortcake or chocolate pudding with whipped cream.<\/p>\n

We spent a weekend there this summer because we wanted to give our son, Jamie, a chance to check it out, to see about going there in the summer of 2015 (he\u2019s going). Out of curiosity, I asked one of the people who led the camp if it could work for someone with type 1 diabetes. I didn\u2019t think it would\u2014this is a camp where kids sleep alone in tents without a counselor, where they can choose all their own activities and need to get themselves there without counselor oversight, where they go on 3-day trips into the wilderness, and where there are two nurses for a camp of close to 200. But I just wanted to see what she\u2019d say. \u201cWe tried that once,\u201d she told me, \u201cand it really didn\u2019t work, even though the child\u2019s mom was working at the camp. You know, that whole independence thing.\u201d<\/p>\n

That whole independence thing\u2014that\u2019s what this camp is built on. But granting independence does not mesh well with T1D. I\u2019ve been thinking about this a lot recently, now that Bisi is wanting and pushing for more independence in all aspects of her life. (She\u2019s only 8\u2014I know that this is nothing compared to what the teenage years will bring.) She\u2019s wanting to go over to friends\u2019 houses and manage her insulin and snacks (with an adult looking over her shoulder, but without me there to help calculate). Although she\u2019s assiduous about testing herself and giving herself insulin, she tends to undercount the carbs and come home significantly higher than I\u2019d like. She\u2019s wanting to walk home alone at the end of the day\u2014but this means a check in with me or the school nurse first to see where her blood sugar is. And she wants to go to diabetes sleep away camp this summer, where she\u2019ll probably learn a whole set of tools and skills that will help her to be more independent in terms of diabetes.<\/p>\n

I always hoped that my kids would go to my old camp, and love it as much as I did. As it turns out, one of them can\u2019t. But while Jamie will be experiencing the same burst of independence I did when I first left home for camp, Bisi will be at a different type of camp, working on her own kind of independence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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